Tommi Parrish Tells the Truth About The Lie and How We Told It
Art by Tommi Parrish
The cover of Tommi Parrish’s new book (and sort-of major label debut) The Lie and How We Told It doesn’t really tell you anything about its plot, but it does tell you plenty about what Parrish’s work feels like. It resists being put in boxes, and this scene of a couple of dozen people at a club (men, women, ambiguously gendered folks; people who are enjoying themselves, people who are not; people who are on the make; people reading, drinking, smoking, dancing, flirting, working; looking at each other or looking past one another; in their own heads and very much out of their heads; and then more on top of that) spills off the edges. Some of them show through the words that make up the title and Parrish’s name, but a bit of cigarette smoke crosses a “W” and a beer bottle pokes through the hole of a lowercase “d.”
Parrish’s stuff isn’t all that clearly worked out, but it’s often about things that aren’t so well defined, especially sex and relationships, which get muddy in a hurry. The interior—which features the reunion of two high school friends who wander around, chatting, interspersed with black-and-white line drawings that make up a book within the book—has similar things going on, and Parrish doesn’t clean up the edges of the panels. Everything is bleeding into or over everything else, and you can’t tell what’s a top and what’s a bottom (double meaning very much implied!). The Lie and How We Told It, like Perfect Hair (their previous book, put out by 2d cloud), doesn’t feel quite grown up yet, but it’s lively and full of visual moments that wake you up whenever you start focusing exclusively on the narrative. Parrish answered Paste’s questions over email, including confirming that winter in Montreal is as terrifying as you’d imagine.
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The Lie and How We Told It Cover Art by Tommi Parrish
Paste: So you’re from Australia, right, but now you’re in Montreal? How did you end up there, and what’s it like?b> Tommi Parrish: I did a crowdfunder so I could come over and tour my book Perfect Hair and I got a two-year visa just in case, and I just kind of stayed. I didn’t really know anyone in Canada, but my best friend Lee Lai had moved to Montreal a few months before, and I miss her so much I followed her. Moving countries is fucking hard. Winters go for like six months here, everyone speaks French and it’s so cold outside that you’ll actually die if you’re outside for longer than 15 minutes, but I love it. I’m living off art right now so I barely need to leave the house anyway, every second person’s a gay punk, rent is half what it was in Melbourne and all of North America is like two hours away. There aren’t that many other places to go in Australia and so I was still living in Melbourne (the city I grew up in) and wow I was starting to hate it. I knew too many people, and my whole family could contact me whenever they wanted.
Paste: Six months of winter sounds like the worst thing ever (I live in Athens, Georgia, where we don’t get much of a real winter). How do you cope? Did you have to buy a whole new wardrobe?
Parrish: It’s so fucked up, I can’t even tell you… The dogs don’t even want to go outside. One of my partners is a bike messenger and works outside all winter. Fucking nightmare. Some days I walk to the cafe at the end of my street and it’s a total ordeal just getting enough layers on to be able to leave the house. My winter clothes are all inherited from pals though, which is nice.
People go NUTS in the spring. It’s pretty fun. Like everyone hermits in the winter and then gets super slutty all summer.
Paste: Tell me a little bit about how you started making comics and what you read growing up. Did you go to school for this?
Parrish: I started when I was old (compared to a lot of cartoonists). My drawings started to become comics when I was 21 because a friend showed me a Powr Mastrs book by CF. Until I was 23 I made comics in secret while I made paintings and sculptures for art school. I dropped out of design school when I was 19 and failed art school when I was 23 so I kinda went to for school for it? I realise now that school isn’t really for me, but it took a while.
Paste: I think your figures (big, blocky, ambiguously gendered but not sexless by any means) are really interesting and distinctive. Are they what you started out drawing or, if not, how did they evolve, especially the relative smallness of their heads?
Parrish: I draw the way I do because drawing any other way feels wrong
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The Lie and How We Told It Interior Art by Tommi Parrish
Paste: Talk to me about how you make a page, from start to finish, complete with what materials you use. How long does it take?
Parrish: Each page takes from a day to three days to paint, usually one to draw and from a few days to a few months to write. I use gouache paint and nice thick paper to accommodate for a bunch of watery paint layers.
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