Kevin Can F**k Himself: Desperate Times and Desperate Measures Rule AMC’s Hybrid Series
Portrait of a Sitcom Wife on Fire
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[This review originally published June 7th, 2021]
The New Yorker’s Anthony Lane once wrote, “the most volatile compound known to man is that of decorum and despair.” This proves ever-true in Kevin Can F—k Himself, AMC’s strange, emotionally-resonate hybrid series. In it, we follow the travails of Allison (Annie Murphy), a long-suffering wife whose husband’s world is a low-brow sitcom. When Kevin (Eric Petersen) is on screen, their lives are illuminated by stage lights and augmented by a laugh track—almost always at Allison’s expense. The fictional audience guffaws over Kevin’s infantile interests and behaviors, as Allison tries to find anything positive about the marriage she has felt trapped in for 10 years. Humiliated, ignored, and gaslighted throughout, Allison tries to keep up a good face while inwardly falling apart. Then as soon as Kevin leaves the room, the studio goes with him; Allison is left alone in the quiet of a drab house, feeling the full weight of her crippling frustration as the laughter fades away.
Created by Valerie Armstrong (Lodge 49) and showrun by Craig DiGregorio (Shrill), the series splits its time between a traditional three-camera sitcom and a single-camera drama. Like the recent Disney+ series WandaVision, it uses familiar TV tropes to illuminate a darker truth lurking under the glossy surface. Allison does have daydreams about a better life, but unlike Wanda she’s not using that to blot out her reality. Instead, she embraces the truth and comes up with a plan to rid herself of Kevin for good.
The series’ title is ostensibly a callback to sitcoms like Kevin Can Wait, playing off of the familiar TV setup of an annoying man-child married to an impossibly patient and beautiful wife. In that particular example, the Kevin James sitcom came under fire for killing off its wife character (played by Erin Hayes), only briefly mentioning it at the start of Season 2 via a piece of junk mail, and then forgetting all about her. The quiet rage kindled by this kind of disrespect is palpable in Kevin Can F—k Himself, where each sitcom moment is more grating than the last.
The show is almost too good at hitting exactly the right patter of bad network comedies, using its Worcester, Massachusetts setting as an excuse for some terribly on-point regional humor (including the worship of Tom Brady and the Patriots in general). Kevin’s friendship with sweet-but-dumb neighbor Neil (Alex Bonifer) and father Pete (Brian Howe) trades on “classically” sexist and xenophobic humor, meant to dehumanize anyone who isn’t them into an “other.” For example, when Kevin throws his “Anniversa-rager” (a backyard beer fest full of sophomoric antics that is a stand-in for his wedding anniversary), he does so while also making fun of Allison for wanting to sit down to “a boring dinner together,” which is in turn belittled by Neil and Pete. Later, when Kevin believes the neighbors have stolen his prized Bill Belichik hoodie, the men all blame the “foreigners” across the street, which is met by raucous studio laughter.
Meanwhile, Neil’s sharp, sardonic sister Patty (Mary Hollis Inboden) tries to play things off as one of the guys. She doesn’t necessarily agree with the men, but she mocks Allison in her own ways (calling her “Barbie,” laughing at her attempts to wear lipstick or dress up for an event) as a means of self preservation. It only increases the house’s exceptionally toxic atmosphere, and Patty slowly comes to understand why—after she drops a bombshell about Kevin’s mismanaging of the couple’s finances that causes Allison to completely snap and make a decision to kill her husband (and get away with it).