It Still Stings: Game of Thrones Failed Its Women
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Editor’s Note: TV moves on, but we haven’t. In our feature series It Still Stings, we relive emotional TV moments that we just can’t get over. You know the ones, where months, years, or even decades later, it still provokes a reaction? We’re here for you. We rant because we love. Or, once loved. And obviously, when discussing finales in particular, there will be spoilers:
While HBO’s Game of Thrones begins with Ned Stark (Sean Bean) making his way to King’s Landing, fracturing his family and the world of Westeros as well, his death in the first season’s penultimate episode ushered in a world where other characters had the opportunity to come to the forefront. Unsurprisingly, it was the women who took the helm and continued to propel the series into the stardom it achieved. From dragon-riding heroes to hopelessly romantic teenagers, the women on the show quickly became the series’ most complex and compelling characters, and swiftly captured the hearts of millions everywhere.
However, there were bumps in the road. The show gratuitously showcased instances of rape—two that do not occur in author George R.R. Martin’s already brutal world—and, eventually, many of these women were broken down into small, irreparable pieces. While Season 6 seemed to build these female characters back up again, the final season shook things up for the worse, and changing the women that we watched transform on our screens for almost a decade forever by its final episode. Change is good, and something that made Game of Thrones the popular show it ended up being. But as the season progressed, shock value took precedence over character development for writers David Benioff and D.B. Weiss.
Season 8 begins with Daenerys Targaryen (Emilia Clarke) and Jon Snow (Kit Harrington) arriving in Winterfell after pledging allegiance to each other’s cause. When they reach the gates, they are greeted by Sansa Stark (Sophie Turner) and her steely gaze. When she hugs Jon, she peers over her shoulder at Daenerys like a jilted lover, and it’s here that it becomes clear that these two would not be friends. While it’s understandable that Sansa, after her brutal torment at the hands of Joffrey Baratheon (Jack Gleeson) and Ramsay Bolton (Iwan Rheon), would be distrustful of strangers, the growing animosity between her and Daenerys feels unnecessary.
This conflict is one of the main issues with Sansa’s character development post-Ramsay. She was sexually assaulted, the plotline thrown in as some half attempt to force character development, but ultimately all it accomplished was turning her into a steely imitation of Cersei Lannister (Lena Headey). While yes, Sansa did indeed learn from Cersei, in the books she learns specifically how not to become her. “If I am ever a queen, I’ll make them love me,” Sansa tells herself in Martin’s A Clash of Kings, and it’s this admission that establishes that, no matter what, her deep rooted kindness will always keep her from turning into what Cersei has become. Instead, HBO’s Sansa is forced to become a one-note character, which almost all of these previously fleshed-out female characters were transformed into with this final season.
On top of Sansa’s sudden flatness, in the Season 8 episode “The Last of the Starks,” when she is reunited with Sandor Clegane (Rory McCann)—one of her only protectors in Kings Landing—her sexual assault is (once again) used against her: a man so desperate to seek absolution through his duty to her and her sister begins their reunion by mocking Sansa’s assault. And what does Sansa do? She tells him that “without Joffrey and Ramsay and all the rest, I would have stayed a little bird all my life.”
Women should not have to be abused and “broken in” to become resilient. Sansa was already changing before her violent assault in Season 5, and yet that single event is what the writers allow to define her seasons-long arc. In her time in King’s Landing, she went from a naive young girl to a woman who could easily conceal her emotions, which aided in her survival. She did it alone, and there is no one she should thank but herself.
And unfortunately, like Sansa, the woman the writers were so desperate for her to emulate also becomes a shell of herself in Season 8. When she’s present, Cersei ponders over a glass of wine and peers out of windows, unspeaking and subsequently, unchanging. The most well-rounded antagonist of the series is reduced to a background character, and the season ultimately suffers because of it. Headey, since 2011, delivered one of the best performances the show had to offer, and seeing Cersei reduced to little more than set dressing not only hurts her arc, but the series as a whole.